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The
first question: WITH
DEEPENING MEDITATION, ONE BECOMES MORE AND MORE SENSITIVE TO OBJECTS, EVENTS AND PERSONS.
BUT DUE TO THIS HEIGHTENED SENSITIVITY ONE FEELS A SORT OF DEEP INTIMACY WITH EVERYTHING,
AND THIS USUALLY BECOMES A CAUSE OF SUBTLE ATTACHMENTS. HOW TO BE SENSITIVE AND YET
DETACHED?
How to be sensitive and yet
detached? These two things are not contraries, they are not opposites. If you are more
sensitive, you will be detached; or, if you are detached, you will become more and more
sensitive. Sensitivity is not attachment, sensitivity is awareness. Only an aware person
can be sensitive. If you are not aware you will be insensitive. When you are unconscious
you are totally insensitive -- the more consciousness, the more sensitivity. A Buddha is
totally sensitive, he has optimum sensitivity, because he will feel and he will be aware
to his total capacity. But when you are sensitive and aware you will not be attached. You
will be detached, because the very phenomenon of awareness breaks the bridge, destroys the
bridge, between you and things, between you and persons, between you and the world.
Unconsciousness, unawareness, is the cause of attachment.
If you are alert, the bridge
suddenly disappears. When you are alert there is nothing to relate you to the world. The
world is there, you are there, but between the two the bridge has disappeared. The bridge
is made of your unconsciousness. So don't think and feel that you become attached because
you are more sensitive. No. If you are more sensitive you will not be attached. Attachment
is a very gross quality, it is not subtle.
For attachment you need not be aware
and alert. There is no need. Even animals can be attached very easily, rather, more
easily. A dog is more attached to his master than any man can be. The dog is completely
unconscious so attachment happens. That is why in the countries where human relationship
has become poor, such as in the West, man goes on seeking relationship with animals, with
dogs, with other animals, because the human relationship is no longer there. Human society
is disappearing and every man feels isolated, alienated, alone. The crowd is there but you
are not related to it. You are alone in the crowd and this aloneness scares. One becomes
afraid and fearful.
When you are related, attached to
someone, and someone is attached to you, you feel you are not alone in this world, in this
strange world. Someone is with you. That feeling of belonging gives you a sort of
security. When human relationship becomes impossible then men and women try to make
relationships with animals. In the West they are very deeply related to dogs and other
animals, but here in the East, although you may be worshipping cows you are not related to
them. You may go on saying that you worship the cow as a divine animal, but your cruelty
has no end.
In the East you are so cruel with
your animals that the West cannot even conceive of how you can go on thinking that you are
non-violent. All over the world, particularly in the West, there are many societies to
protect animals from the cruelty of men. You cannot beat a dog in the West. If you beat
it, it will be a criminal act and you will be punished for it. What is happening really,
is that human relationship is dissolving -- but man cannot live alone. He must have a
relationship, a belonging, a feeling that someone is with him. Animals can be very good
friends because they get so attached; no one, no man, can get that attached.
For attachment, awareness is not
necessary; rather, awareness is the barrier. The more aware you become the less you will
be attached, because the need for attachment disappears. Why do you want to be attached to
someone? Because alone you feel you are not enough. You lack something. Something is
incomplete in you. You are not a whole. You need someone to complete you. Hence,
attachment. If you are aware, you are complete, you are a whole; the circle is now
complete, nothing is lacking in you -- you don't need anyone. You, alone, feel a total
independence, a feeling of wholeness.
That doesn't mean that you will not
love persons; rather, on the contrary, only you can love. A person who is dependent on you
cannot love you: he will hate you. A person who needs you cannot love you. He will hate
you because you become the bondage. He feels that without you he cannot live, without you
he cannot be happy, so you are the cause of both his happiness and unhappiness. He cannot
afford to lose you. This will give a feeling of imprisonment: he is imprisoned by you and
he will resent it, he will fight against it. Persons hate and love together, but this love
cannot be very deep. Only a person who is aware can love, because he doesn't need you. But
then love has a totally different dimension: it is not attachment, it is not dependence.
He is not dependent on you and he will not make you dependent on him; he will remain a
freedom and he will allow you to remain a freedom. You will be two free agents, two total,
whole beings, meeting. That meeting will be a festivity, a celebration -- not a
dependence. That meeting will be a fun, a play.
That is why we have called Krishna's
life KRISHNA-LEELA, the play of Krishna. He loves so many persons but there is no
attachment. The same is not true on the part of the GOPIS and the GOPALS, the friends and
the girl friends of Krishna. The same is not true. They have become attached, so when
Krishna moves from Brindavan to Dwaraka, they weep and cry and suffer. Their anguish is
great because they think that Krishna has forgotten them. He has not forgotten, but there
is no pain because there was no dependence; he is as whole and happy in Dwaraka as he was
in Brindavan and his love is flowing as much in Dwaraka as it was in Brindavan. The
objects of love have changed but the source of love remains the same. So whosoever comes
near him receives the gift. And this gift is unconditional: nothing is required as a
return, nothing is asked as a return.
When love comes through an aware
consciousness it is just a pure gift with no condition, and the person who is giving it is
happy because he is giving it. The very act of giving is his bliss, his ecstasy.
So remember that if you feel that
through meditation you have become more sensitive, then automatically you will become less
attached, more detached. Because you will be more grounded in yourself, you will be more
centered in yourself, you will not use somebody else as your center. What does attachment
mean? Attachment means that you are using someone else as your center of being, Majanu is
attached to Laila: he says he cannot live without Laila. That means the center of being
has been transferred. If you say that you cannot live without this or that, then your soul
is not within you. Then you are not existing as an independent unit, your center has moved
somewhere else.
This movement of the center from
yourself to something else, to the other, is attachment. If you are sensitive, you will
feel the other, but the other will not become the center of your life. You will remain the
center and out of this centering the other will receive many gifts from you. But they will
be gifts, they will not be bargains. You will simply give because you have too much, you
are an overflowing. And you will be thankful that the other has received it. That will be
enough and that will be the end.
That is why I go on saying that the
mind is a great deceiver. You think that you are meditating and that that is why you have
become sensitive. Then the question of why you get attached arises. If you get attached,
that is a clear symptom that the sensitivity is not because of awareness. Really, it is
not sensitivity at all. It may be sentimentalism: that is a totally different thing. You
can be sentimental: you can cry and weep over small things, you can be touched, and a
storm can be created very easily within you -- but that is sentimentalism, not
sensitivity.
Let
me tell you a story. Buddha was staying in a village. A woman came to
him, weeping and crying and screaming. Her child, her only child, had suddenly died.
Because Buddha was in the village, people said, "Don't weep. Go to this man. People
say he is infinite compassion. If he wills it, the child can revive. So don't weep. Go to
this Buddha." The woman came with the dead child, crying, weeping, and the whole
village followed her -- the whole village was affected. Buddha's disciples were also
affected; they started praying in their minds that Buddha would have compassion. He must
bless the child so that he will be revived, resurrected.
Many disciples of Buddha started
weeping. The scene was so touching, deeply moving. Everybody was still. Buddha remained
silent. He looked at the dead child, then he looked at the weeping, crying mother and he
said to the mother, "Don't weep, just do one thing and your child will be alive
again. Leave this dead child here, go back to the town, go to every house and ask every
family if someone has ever died in their family, in their house. And if you can find a
house where no one has ever died, then from them beg something to be eaten, some bread,
some rice, or anything -- but from the house where no one has ever died. And that bread or
that rice will revive the child immediately. You go. Don't waste time."
The woman became happy. She felt
that now the miracle was going to happen. She touched Buddha's feet and ran to the village
which was not a very big one, very few cottages, a few families. She moved from one family
to another, asking. But every family said, "This is impossible. There is not a single
house -- not only in this village but all over the earth -- there is not a single house
where no one has ever died, where people have not suffered death and the misery and the
pain and the anguish that comes out of it."
By and by the woman realized that
Buddha had been playing a trick. This was impossible. But still the hope was there. She
went on asking until she had gone around the whole village. Her tears dried, her hope
died, but suddenly she felt a new tranquility, a serenity, coming to her. Now she realized
that whosoever is born will have to die. It is only a question of years. Someone will die
sooner, someone later, but death is inevitable. She came back and touched Buddha's feet
again and said to him, "As people say, you really do have a deep compassion for
people." No one could understand what had happened. Buddha initiated her into
SANNYAS, she became a BHIKKHUNI, a SANNYASIN. She was initiated.
Anand asked Buddha, "You could
have revived the boy. He was such a beautiful child and the mother was in such
anguish." But Buddha said, "Even if the child was resurrected, he would have had
to die. Death is inevitable." Anand said, "But you don't seem to be very
sensitive to people, to their misery and anguish." Buddha replied, "I am
sensitive; you are sentimental. Just because you start weeping, do you think you are
sensitive? You are childish. You don't understand life. You are not aware of the
phenomenon."
This is the difference between
Christianity and Buddhism. Christ was reported to have done many miracles of reviving
people. When Lazarus was dead, Jesus touched him and he came back to life. We in the East
cannot conceive of Buddha touching a dead man and bringing him back to life. To ordinary
persons, to the ordinary mind, Jesus would look more loving and compassionate than Buddha.
But I say to you that Buddha is more sensitive, more compassionate, because even if
Lazarus was revived, it made no difference. He still had to die. Finally Lazarus had to
die. So this miracle was of no use, of no ultimate value. One cannot conceive of Buddha
doing such a thing.
Jesus had to because he was bringing
something new, a new message to Israel. And the message was so deep that people would not
understand it so he had to create miracles around it -- because people can understand
miracles but they cannot understand the deep message, the esoteric message. They can
understand miracles, so through miracles they might become open and able to be receptive
to the message. Jesus was carrying a Buddhist message to a land which was not Buddhist; an
Eastern message to a country which had no tradition of enlightenment, of many Buddhas.
We can conceive that Buddha was more
sensitive than his disciples who were weeping and crying. They were sentimental.
Don't misunderstand your
sentimentality for sensitivity. Sentimentality is ordinary; sensitivity is extraordinary.
It happens through effort. It is an achievement. You have to earn it. Sentimentality is
not to be earned; you are born with it. It is an animal inheritance which you already have
in the cells of your body and your mind. Sensitivity is a possibility. You don't have it
already. You can create it, you can work for it -- then it will happen to you. And
whenever it happens, you will be detached.
Buddha was totally detached. The
dead child was there but he didn't seem to be affected at all. The woman, the mother, was
miserable and he was playing a trick on her. This man seems to be cruel and this playing
of a trick seems to be too much for a mother whose child has died. He gave her a riddle,
and he knew well that she would come back empty-handed. But I say again that he has real
compassion because he was helping this woman to grow, to be mature. Unless you can
understand death you are not mature; and unless you can accept death, you don't have a
center within your being. When you accept death as a reality, you have transcended it.
Buddha used the situation. He was
less concerned with the dead child and more concerned with the alive mother because he
knew that the dead child would come back to life again -- there was no need for the
miracle. But if the child was revived the mother might have lost an opportunity. For lives
together she might not again have a meeting with a Buddha. So in the East only third-rate
SADDHUS have been doing miracles; the first-rate have never done any -- they work on a
higher level. Buddha is also doing a miracle but the miracle is being done on a very high
level. The mother is being transformed.
But it is difficult to understand
because our minds are gross and we only understand sentimentality, we cannot understand
sensitivity. Sensitivity means an alertness which feels everything that happens around.
And you can feel only when you are not attached. Remember this: if you are attached you
are no longer there to feel, you have moved out of you. So if you want to know the truth
about someone don't ask his friends. They are attached. And don't ask his enemies. They
are also attached, in the reverse order. Ask someone who is neutral, neither a friend nor
an enemy. Only he can say the truth.
Friends cannot be believed, enemies
cannot be believed; but we believe either the friends or the enemies. Both are bound to be
wrong because they don't have a neutral witnessing, they don't have a detached view. They
cannot stand aloof and look because they have an investment in the person. Friends have an
investment and enemies have an investment. They see according to particular viewpoints,
and with those viewpoints they are attached. The moment you feel you are attached, you
have taken a viewpoint. The totality is lost; only a fragmentary thing is in your hands.
And fragments are always lies because only the whole is true.
Meditate, become more sensitive, and
take it as a criterion that you will go on becoming more and more detached. If you feel
that attachment is growing, then you are erring somewhere in your meditation. These are
the criteria. And to me, attachment cannot be destroyed and detachment cannot be
practised. You can only practise meditation -- and detachment will follow as a
consequence, as a by-product. If meditation really flowers within you, you will have a
feeling of detachment. Then you can move anywhere and you will remain untouched, unafraid.
Then when you leave your body, you will leave it unscratched. Your consciousness will be
absolutely pure, nothing foreign has entered into it. When you are attached, impurities
enter into you. This is the basic impurity: that you are losing your center and somebody
else or something else is becoming your center of being.
The second question:
IF FAITH CAN
MOVE THE MOUNTAINS, WHY CAN YOU NOT HEAL YOUR OWN BODY?
I don't have any body.
This feeling that you have a body is
absolutely wrong. The body belongs to the universe; you don't have it, it is not yours. So
if the body is ill or if the body is healthy the universe will take care of it. And a
person who is in meditation should remain a witness, whether the body is healthy or ill.
The desire to be healthy is part of
ignorance. The desire not to be ill is also part of ignorance. And this is not a new
question -- this is one of the oldest questions. It has been asked of Buddha; it has been
asked of Mahavir. Ever since there have been enlightened persons, the unenlightened have
always asked this question.
Look... Jesus said faith can move
mountains, but he died on the cross. He couldn't move the cross. You or someone like you
must have been present there waiting. The disciples were waiting because they knew Jesus,
and he had been saying again and again that faith could move mountains. So they were
waiting for some miracle to happen -- and Jesus simply died on the cross. But this was the
miracle: he could be a witness to his own death. And the moment of witnessing one's own
death is the greatest moment of being alive.
Buddha died of food poisoning. He
suffered for six months continuously. And there were many disciples who were waiting for
him to do a miracle. But he suffered silently and died silently. He accepted death. There
were disciples there who were trying to cure him, many medicines were given to him.
A great physician of those days,
Jeevak, was Buddha's personal physician. He used to move with him wherever he went. Many
times people must have asked, "Why does this Jeevak go with you?" But it was
Jeevak's own attachment. Jeevak was moving with Buddha because of his own attachment, and
the disciples who were trying to help Buddha's body remain alive longer in this world,
even if only for a few days more, were also attached.
For Buddha himself, illness and
health were the same. That doesn't mean that illness will not give pain. It will! Pain is
a physical phenomenon, it will happen. But it will not disturb the inner consciousness.
The inner consciousness will remain undisturbed, it will remain as balanced as ever. The
body will suffer, but the inner being will remain just a witness of the whole suffering.
There will be no identification --
and this I call the miracle. This is possible through faith. And no mountain is bigger
than identification -- remember. The Himalayas are nothing; your identification with your
body is a greater mountain. The Himalayas may be moved or not moved through faith, that is
irrelevant, but your identification can be destroyed.
But we cannot conceive of anything
which we do not know, we can think only according to our minds. We think according to
where we are; the pattern remains the same.
Sometimes my body is ill, and people
come to me and they say, "Why are you ill? You should not be ill; an enlightened
person should not be ill." But who told you that it is so? I have never heard about
any enlightened person who was not ill. Illness belongs to the body. It has no concern
with your consciousness or whether you are enlightened or not.
And sometimes it happens that
enlightened persons are more ill than unenlightened ones. There are reasons.... Now that
they don't belong to the body, they don't co-operate with the body; deep down they have
broken themselves from the body. So the body remains but the attachment and the bridge is
broken.
Many illnesses happen because of the
separation that has happened. They are in the body but their co-operation is no longer
there. That is why we say an enlightened person will never be born again -- because now he
cannot make any bridge with any body again. The bridge is broken. While he is in the body,
then too, really, he is dead.
Buddha attained enlightenment when
he was near about forty. He died when he was eighty so he lived forty years more. On the
day he was dying, Anand started crying and said, "What will happen to us? Without you
we will fall into darkness. You are dying and we have not yet become enlightened. Our own
light is not yet lit and you are dying. Do not leave us!"
Buddha is reported to have said,
"What? What are you saying, Anand? I died forty years before. This existence was just
a phantom existence, a shadow existence. It was running along somehow, but the force was
not there. It was just a momentum from the past."
If you are pedalling a bicycle, and
then you stop and there is no pedalling, you are not giving any co-operation to the cycle,
it will go on moving for a little whole just because of the momentum, the energy that you
gave it in the past.
The moment someone becomes
enlightened, the co-operation is broken. Now the body will take its own course. It has a
momentum. From many lives in the past, momentum has been given to it. It has a life span
of its own which will be completed, but now, because the inner force is no longer with it,
the body is prone to be more ill than ordinarily. Ramakrishna died of cancer; Raman died
of cancer. To the disciples it was a great shock, but because of their ignorance they
could not understand.
One thing more has to be understood.
When a person becomes enlightened, this is going to be his last life. So all the past
karmas and the whole continuum has to be fulfilled in this life. The suffering -- if he
has anything to suffer -- will become intense. For you there is no hurry, your suffering
will be spread out over many lives. But for a Raman this is the last. All that is there
from the past has to be completed. There will be an intensity of everything, of all
karmas. This life will become a condensed life.
Sometimes it is possible -- this is
difficult to understand -- to suffer in a single moment the sufferings of many lives. In a
single moment, the intensity becomes much because time can be condensed or spread out.
You know already that sometimes when
you sleep you see a dream, and when you are awake again you know that you have been asleep
for only a few seconds. But you have seen such a long dream. It is possible that even a
whole life can be seen in a single dream.
What has happened? In such a small
period of time how could you see such a long dream? There is not a single layer of time as
we ordinarily understand -- there are many layers of time. Dream time has its own
existence. Even while awake time goes on changing. It may not change according to the
clock because a clock is a mechanical thing, but psychological time goes on changing.
When you are happy, the time flows
fast. When you are unhappy, the time slows down. A single night can be eternity if you are
in suffering, and a whole life can become a single moment if you are happy and blissful.
When a person becomes enlightened,
everything has to be closed: this is a closing time. Many millions of lives have to be
closed and all the accounts have to be cleared, because there will be no chance any more.
After his enlightenment and enlightened person lives in a different time altogether and
whatsoever happens to him is qualitatively different. But he remains a witness.
Mahavir died of stomach pain,
something like an ulcer -- for many years he suffered. His disciples must have been in
difficulty because they have created a story around it. They could not understand why
Mahavir should suffer, so they have created a story which shows something about the
disciples, not about Mahavir.
They say that a person who had a
very evil spirit, Goshalak, was the cause of Mahavir's suffering. He threw his evil force
on Mahavir and Mahavir absorbed it only because of his compassion -- and that is why he
suffered. This shows nothing about Mahavir but something about the difficulty of the
disciples. They cannot conceive of Mahavir suffering so they had to find a cause somewhere
else.
One day I was suffering from a cold
-- it is my constant companion. So somebody came and he said, "You must have taken
somebody else's cold." That doesn't show anything about me, it shows something about
him. It is difficult for him to conceive of me suffering. So he said, "You must have
somebody else's cold." I tried to convince him, but it is impossible to convince
disciples. The more you try to convince them, the more they believe that they are right.
In the end he said to me, "Whatsoever you say I am not going to listen. I know! You
have taken somebody else's illness."
What to do? The body's health and
illness is its own affair. If you want to do something about it, you are still attached to
it. It will take its own course; you need not be much worried about it.
I am only a witness. The body is
born, the body will die; only the witnessing will be there. It will remain forever. Only
witnessing is something absolutely eternal -- everything else goes on changing, everything
else is a flux.
The third question:
LAST NIGHT
YOU EXPLAINED IN DETAIL ABOUT HOW SEEKERS DECEIVE THEMSELVES BY NOT MAKING EARNEST AND
SINCERE EFFORTS TOWARD MEDITATION. BUT WITH MANY OF THE SEEKERS WHO EARNESTLY ASK YOU FOR
MEDITATION TECHNIQUES, YOU SIMPLY SAY TO THEM TO LEAVE EVERYTHING TO YOU AND THAT YOU WILL
LOOK AFTER THEIR SPIRITUAL PROGRESS. BUT MANY SEEKERS FEEL DISSATISFACTION ABOUT THEIR
SPIRITUAL TRANSFORMATION THAT WAY. IN THIS CASE, PLEASE EXPLAIN HOW THESE SEEKERS ARE
DECEIVING THEMSELVES.
Firstly, when they ask for a
technique, I give them a technique. This is a technique: LEAVE EVERYTHING TO ME. This is
one of the most powerful techniques possible. And don't think that it is easy; it is very
difficult, sometimes impossible. It is difficult to leave everything to somebody, but if
you can, in that very surrender your ego has disappeared; in that very surrender, your
past has disappeared; in that very surrender a new point is born -- you are different. Up
to now you were living with your own ego; from now onwards you will be living without the
ego, you will be following a path of surrender.
So don't think that this is not a
technique! It is a technique -- one of the very basic techniques. And I don't give it to
any and everybody. I give it only to particular persons who are very egoistic, because for
them any technique will create trouble. Their ego will exploit it. They will become more
egoistic through it. They can practise anything else except this, but by that practise
their ego is not going to be destroyed; rather, it will be more fulfilled. They will
become great `meditators'. They can renounce the world, but their ego will be strengthened
whatsoever they do. Whenever I feel that this seeker has such a subtle ego that any method
will be poisonous to him, then only do I say, "Leave everything to me." Not that
this is going to be the end, but this is going to be the beginning. And this is going to
be the right beginning for all those who are ego-centered. If they can leave everything to
me, then I will start giving them other techniques -- but only then. Then other techniques
will not prove poisonous. Once the ego is not there those techniques will transform them.
And if their surrender is so total that nothing is left to be transformed, then there will
be no need for any other technique. This too is possible, and this is possible only for
those who are very egoistic; only they can surrender totally.
This will look confusing,
paradoxical -- but remember, you can leave something only if you have it. If you don't
have a very strong ego, what can you leave? What can you surrender? It is just like asking
a beggar to surrender all his riches. He will be ready, he will say, `Okay,' but his okay
means nothing. It is absolutely futile because he has nothing to lose. And if you have a
very strong ego, that means a very concentrated ego, crystallized, you can leave it
totally because it will be difficult to leave it in parts. It is so concentrated and
crystalized that it will be difficult to leave it in fragments. Either you can leave it or
not. It is one of the paradoxes of life that for surrender a very authentic ego is needed
to be there in the first place. So to me, a right education will consist in creating
strong egos, to the very extreme, where a great suffering is born out of them, and then --
surrender. Only the is surrender possible.
This has been my experience. Persons
coming from the West have stronger egos than the Eastern persons because in the West there
is no concept of surrender, no concept of obedience, no concept of guru and disciple.
Really, the Western mind cannot conceive of what a guru is. And they cannot conceive of
someone surrendering to anybody. The whole Western education, culture and civilization is
based on ego, ego-fulfillment. And Western psychologists say that to be mentally healthy,
you must have a strong ego. So all the Western psychologies help the ego to be strong: a
child's ego must be strengthened in every way otherwise he will become mentally ill. But
Eastern religions say that unless you leave the ego you cannot know the ultimate truth,
you cannot know what life's mystery is. Both seem to be contradictory, but they are not.
To me, the Western training must be there in the beginning with every person all over the
world. Every person should be given a strong ego. By the age of thirty-five you should
reach to the peak of your ego; at the age of thirty-five it should be at its peak, strong,
as strong as possible. Only then will surrendering happen. So whenever Western seekers
come to me and I tell them to leave things to me, they are very hesitant, resistant. And
it seems impossible, but sometimes, when surrender happens, they achieve a much deeper
realization.
With Eastern persons surrender is
not very difficult. They are ready. You say, `Surrender,' they say, `Yes.' There is not a
single hesitation on their part. They don't have very strong, developed egos. They can
surrender it -- but that surrender is impotent. It will not help. So it almost always
happens that with the Eastern person I immediately give him a technique to work on, so
that it helps his ego. With Western persons I immediately say, `Surrender.' They have
already reached that point within them so they can surrender; their very hesitancy shows
that they can surrender. But their surrender is going to be a struggle, and when it is a
struggle it is a SADHANA. When it is a struggle it means something; it is going to
transform them.
So firstly, when I say, "leave
everything to me," this is a technique; and I say it only to persons who have very
developed egos. Secondly... BUT MANY SEEKERS FEEL DISSATISFACTION ABOUT THEIR SPIRITUAL
TRANSFORMATION THAT WAY. Right, these are the people to whom I say, `Surrender.' They feel
very dissatisfied. They want something to do, they don't want to surrender. I know they
will feel dissatisfied because their ego will resist; it will try in every way not to
surrender. But that cannot be helped. They will have to pass through this dissatisfaction,
and they will have to understand that leaving everything to me is just the beginning. If
they cannot do that, I am not going to give them any technique right now. They can leave
me, or leave everything to me. There is no other alternative. Once I say to someone,
"Leave everything to me," I am not going to give any technique to him. I know
that it will be difficult and arduous -- but it has to be so. The more difficult, the more
arduous, the better, because that means he has a more evolved ego, and it is struggling.
He will have to come some day -- to me or to someone else, it is irrelevant -- and he will
have to surrender it.
The master is not so relevant; the
surrendering is relevant. Where you surrender is of no significance. You can surrender to
a stone Buddha. That will do. Surrendering transforms you. It is putting your ego aside,
unburdening yourself; living for the first time not out of the past but moving into the
present, fresh and young, unburdened.
And the third thing: IN THIS CASE,
PLEASE EXPLAIN HOW THESE SEEKERS ARE DECEIVING THEMSELVES. They can deceive themselves.
They can say to me, "Yes, we leave everything to you," and go on withholding
everything. They can deceive themselves that they have surrendered and they can go on
insisting on their own ways. Surrender cannot be partial, it can be only total -- and then
you cannot set your conditions, your likes and dislikes.
It happened
just a few days ago. A man came to me and he said, "I will leave everything to you.
Whatsoever you say, I will do." I told him, "Repeat it again slowly,
"Whatsoever you say, I will do."' He repeated it. I told him to repeat it again
and go more slowly. He became a little disturbed and said, `Why?' And he also became aware
of why I was saying go slowly. He said, "You may be right. I should not say this,
because it is very difficult to leave everything to you and it will be difficult to follow
whatsoever you say." So I told him to make it conditional, to be exact so that he
could not change. He said, "Right, Whatsoever I like -- give me the freedom to
choose."
This is how you can deceive. Inside
YOU remain the master; you go on choosing what to do and what not to do. And as it
happens, whatsoever you choose is going to be wrong because the mind that is choosing is
wrong, otherwise there would have been no need to come to me. When I say surrender it
means that now you will not choose, now I will choose and you will follow. And if you can
follow totally, the day is not far away when I will say, "Now there is no need. Now
you can choose."
You must disappear: the surface, the
superficial ego must disappear. Then your own being comes into being. I am not going to
keep you following me forever and ever. That is not a very happy business. When your ego
is no longer there, your own guru, the inside master, has come into being. The outer guru
is nothing but a representative of the inner one. Once the inner is there, the outer is
not needed. And your own guru will say to you, "Now follow yourself. Move alone. Now
you don't need anybody to guide you, the inner guide has come into being. Now you have
your own inner light. You can see through it. It will show you the path."
But right now, as you are, it is not
possible. You don't have any light. You cannot see. And wherever your mind leads you it
will be wrong. This mind has been leading you for lives and it always leads you into
particular patterns. It has old habits and it leads you accordingly. It is a mechanical
thing. Just to create a break, surrender is needed. If you surrender to something, even
for a few days, there will be a gap between now and your past. A new force has entered
within you. Now you cannot continue with the past; your way, as it has always been, cannot
be any more. A turning will happen. This gap is what is meant by surrender.
But you can deceive. You can say,
"Yes, I surrender," and you may not have surrendered. Or you may think that you
have surrendered but unconsciously you are fighting. Not only in surrender, but in
everything where a `let-go' is needed, we fight.
In the West much research is going
on about the phenomenon of sex, because people are becoming less and less capable of deep
orgasms. They have sex but no ecstasy comes out of it. It has become a boring affair. They
feel only frustrated, only weakened through it. And then it becomes a routine. They don't
know what to do. A deep ecstasy through the orgasm is its significance. If it doesn't
happen it is futile and useless and even harmful. Many schools of psychology go on working
on the questions: "What has happened to man? Why is he not achieving orgasm through
sex? Why is there so much dissatisfaction?" All the researches indicate that the
reason is that man cannot surrender -- that is why he cannot achieve orgasm. Even while
making love, while deep in sex, your mind remains in control. You go on controlling. You
are not in a `let-go'. You are afraid to let go because if you allow the sex energy to
move uncontrolled you don't know where it will lead. You may go mad, you may even die.
That is the fear. So you remain in control.
You go on manipulating your body.
This manipulation from the mind doesn't allow the whole body to become a flow of energy.
Then sex becomes a local affair, the whole body is not involved, the whole body is not in
an inner dance; the ecstasy is missed. You lose energy and you don't gain anything --
there is bound to be frustration. So psychologists say that you will not achieve a deep
ecstasy unless you are in a deep `let-go', unless the mind is not there and the ego is not
there; unless the body has taken over with its own force, its own momentum, and is moving
by its own unconscious sources; unless YOU are not there. That ecstasy can give you a
first glimpse of the ultimate ecstasy that happens in a total `let-go' of your ego with
the Divine, with the universe.
Samadhi, the ultimate goal of all
yoga and Tantra, is a deep orgasm with the universe itself, with the existence itself. The
guru is just trying to help you, to bring you to a point where you can at least surrender
the ego. Then a deep ecstasy will happen between you and your master. Wherever there is a
`let-go', ecstasy happens -- that is the law.
So if you can surrender to a guru,
don't listen to anybody. Even if the whole world says that this guru is wrong, don't
listen to it. If you can surrender, this guru is right. You will achieve an ecstatic
moment through him. And if the whole world says that this guru is right, and you cannot
surrender, he is useless for you. So wherever you have the feeling of surrendering, there
is your guru, your master.
Search for the place, search for the
person in whose presence you can allow a `let-go', in whose presence you can drop your
mind even for a time. Once this force from the outside enters into you, your path will be
different, your life will have taken a new turning.
You can deceive yourself: you can go
on thinking that you have surrendered but you know well inside that you have not
surrendered. And remember: you cannot deceive a master -- he knows. And he will go on
insisting unless the `let-go' really happens. You can manoeuvre, you can play a game, but
you cannot deceive a master. You can put your head to his feet but that gesture means
nothing. It may be just a superficial gesture, you are not bowing down at all. But if
bowing down really happens, the master can work.
So whenever I say,
"Surrender," or "Leave it to me and I will take care," I mean it.
Exactly whatsoever I say I mean it. I want to create a gap within you, a discontinuity
with the past. Once the gap is there, you will sooner or later become capable of going on
your own. But before that, if you go on your own, you will continue the past story.
Nothing new is possible. For the new, something from the outside must enter you, must push
you onto a new path.
The last question:
YOU SAID THAT
JESUS DIDN'T KNOW THAT THE EARTH IS ROUND. SO FOR CHRISTIANS WHO BELIEVE THAT JESUS WAS
GOD, THIS SEEMS VERY STRANGE. ISN'T IT IMPLIED THAT AN ENLIGHTENED ONE LIKE JESUS, WHO
KNEW DEEP OCCULT SCIENCES, MUST ALSO KNOW MANY ASTRONOMICAL AND ASTROLOGICAL FACTS ABOUT
PLANETS, THE UNIVERSE, AND THE INTER-RELATIONSHIP OF CELESTIAL BODIES? PLEASE EXPLAIN.
No, Jesus was not concerned. When
Jesus said that the world was flat, he was using the knowledge that was prevalent in those
days. He was not concerned about whether the world was round or flat; it was meaningless
to him. He was more concerned about those persons who were living on this `flat' or
`round' earth.
The concern has to be understood. It
is absolutely futile for Jesus to discuss these things. What difference does it make? For
example, you know from the geography books that the world is round. If your geography
books were teaching that the world is flat, as they were teaching in the past, what
difference will it make to you? Will you be a better man? Will you be more meditative on a
`flat' world or on a `round' earth? What difference will it make to your being and the
quality of your consciousness? It is irrelevant.
Jesus was concerned with your
consciousness, and he will not unnecessarily argue about things which are useless. Only
unenlightened persons are dragged into unnecessary things. If you had told Jesus that the
world was round, he would have said yes. It makes no difference to him because that was
not his concern. The prevalent idea was that the world was flat. And really, to the
ordinary mind, the world is still flat. It looks flat. The roundness is a scientific fact,
but Jesus was not a scientist.
For example, I know that it is a
scientific fact that the sun never rises and never sets. The earth is moving around, the
sun is not moving. But still I sue the words `sunset' and `sunrise'. Sunrise is basically
wrong. The very word is wrong, because the sun never rises. Sunset is wrong, the sun never
`sets'. So after two thousand years, someone can say that this man was unenlightened
because he said `the sun rises', `sunrise', `sunset'. Didn't he know these small things?
But if I am to change every word
then I will be fighting unnecessarily and that is not going to help anybody. Jesus simply
used the prevalent knowledge -- and the prevalent idea was that the earth was flat. He was
not concerned about it. If he were here today, he would say that the earth is round. But
even that is not exactly scientific, because the earth is not exactly round. Now they say
it is like an egg, not exactly round. The shape is like an egg. But who knows? -- the next
day they may change and say that this is not so. Science goes on changing, because as it
becomes more accurate, as it attains to more knowledge, as more facts are known, as more
experiments are done, things change. But a person like Jesus or Buddha is not concerned
about these facts.
Remember one thing: science is
concerned with facts, religion is concerned with truth. Facts are not its concern, truth
is its concern. Facts are about objects, truth is about you, your consciousness. So every
enlightened person has to use the prevalent knowledge about facts. But you should not
judge Jesus or Buddha by that -- you are judging wrongly. They can be judged only by what
they have said about the truth, about the intrinsic truth of human consciousness. About
that they are always absolutely right although their language differs.
A Buddha speaks in one language,
Jesus in a different one, Krishna in another. They use different factual knowledge, they
use different techniques, devices, but the central core of their teaching is the same. And
that, if you allow me to say it, is how to attain to total awareness.
Awareness is the basic teaching of
all the enlightened ones. They use many parables, techniques, devices, symbols, myths, but
those are irrelevant. You can cut them away, you can put them aside and just bring out the
basic core. The basic core of all the awakened persons is awareness. So Jesus goes on
telling his disciples how to be more awake -- not to be sleeping, not to move in dreams,
but to be alert, awake.
He used to
tell a parable. He said that it happened once that a great lord, a great master, a very
rich man, went on a far-away journey. He told his servants that they had to be always
alert because he would be back any moment, ANY moment. And whenever he came back, the
house should be ready to receive him. He could come back, any moment. The servants had to
be alert, they couldn't even sleep. Even at night they had to be ready because the master
could come any moment.
Jesus used to say that you have to
be alert every moment because any moment the Divine can descend into you. You may miss. If
the Divine knocks at your door and you are fast asleep, you will miss. You have to be
alert. The guest can come at any moment, and the guest is not going to inform you
beforehand that he is coming.
Jesus said just like the servants of
that master, remain alert continuously, remain aware, waiting, watchful because any moment
the Divine can penetrate you. And if you are not alert, he will come, knock and go back.
And that moment may not repeated soon; no one knows how many lives it may take before the
Divine will again knock at your door. And if you have become habitually asleep, you may
have missed that knock many times already and you may miss it again and again.
Be alert. That is the basic core.
All else is only to be used to reach it. So just because Jesus says the earth is flat, he
doesn't become unenlightened. And just because you know the earth is round, you don't
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